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Mistress Lisa of Lisadomina Productions is an active Kinkster (see her profile) as well as one of the best Femdoms in fetish film. We were fortunate enough to land a second interview with her recently.

You mentioned in a previous interview that an ex-boyfriend introduced you to BDSM; were there any other influences that helped entice you to the lifestyle?

Once I was introduced to BDSM I had a lot of influences. My eyes were opened, particularly to the behavior of men who are submissive, and how much some men need a FEMDOM relationship. For instance, where I used to live there is a couple who lived next door to me. They each had a car but the wife always parked in the driveway and the husband always parked on the street. One day the husband was washing his car in the driveway when the wife came home. He immediately stopped what he was doing, ran to the driver's door and moved out of the driveway so she could park there. I said to myself, "This looks like a femdom relationship to me." I was intrigued so about a week later I invited them over for a barbeque at my house. I had my boyfriend at the time who was a submissive do all the cooking and preparation. The husband and wife arrived with drinks and their behavior confirmed my suspicions. She never once "asked" him to do anything. She told him what to do. When she told him to, "Fetch me a glass of champagne," and he scurried off to obey I knew who was the boss in the relationship. I also noted that they were very happy, and he loved doting on her. These are the kinds of things that made me embrace the femdom lifestyle.

How did you get started in the adult industry?

There were several things that got me started. I started off as a lifestyle domme dominating my boyfriend and forcing him to do forced bi with other men. This was a good test of his submissiveness because he wasn't attracted to men at all. In the process of advertising to get guys for these forced bi scenes I learned that there were many more guys out there who wanted to be forced to suck cock than wanted a blowjob from another guy. I received donations and lots of interest in this kind of session. Once I got my own website and started advertising as a professional domme online things really took off. I think it helped a lot that I was interested in femdom first as a lifestyle before becoming professional and receiving donations for it. The submissives that I have seen are generally pretty intelligent individuals who can tell when a woman is just doing domination for money.

Once I started getting established as a professional dominatrix I started receiving requests to do custom videos for submissives with a particular fetish. Most of these video requests were for extreme degradation like forced toilet training and/or corporal punishment. Most of it was too extreme for mainstream video sales so I had to edit some of that extreme stuff out before I could sell it online. I was still able to salvage enough good material though to start selling it online. Once I made that step I started making content just for online sales.

Have things gotten easier since you started?

In some ways things have gotten easier. There are a lot of unique fetishes out there and by now I've seen or heard of them all. I am always amused when a sub calls me for the first time and tells me that he has been looking at my website, video clips, and VOD for years but never had the courage to call me because he is so shy about talking about his fetish. Then he finally tells me and it is a common fantasy (for me) like feminization, strap-on or forced bi. I do that kind of session all the time so it is normal to me.

In some ways though, things have gotten harder. When I first started advertising on Eros Guide there were about 30 pro dommes advertising here in Los Angeles. Now there are almost 60, and I've seen it spike up to 76 before. I think this is due to the tough economic times and unemployment causing women to think outside the box when it comes to making money. Unfortunately for the submissive who calls a pro domme, he may get a girl who is just after his money instead of understanding his fetish. I'm pretty fortunate though to have a lot of loyal slaves who have been seeing me regularly for years, so the glut of professional dommes hasn't really affected me too much.

What was your favorite photo shoot? Movie?

One of my favorite photo shoots/movies was Busted & Beaten. We did a photo shoot first and got a lot of great photos from it. Then we did the video, the premise of which is a stalker pervert sneaks into my house while me and my girlfriend are making out on the couch. We capture him, chain him to the ceiling and beat him senseless. Then we lock him in a concrete cell and decide to keep him as a pet to torture when we need to amuse ourselves. It was so much fun teasing that guy with me and my girlfriend kissing and touching each other, then brutally whipping the slave. The contrast was fun.

Another one of my favorites was Extreme Sissy Whip Torture. It was fun because the slave (Slut Sandy) in the video complained that I didn't beat him enough the last time he came to see me. So, I made a whip out of several strands of aircraft cable strung through a wood handle. When he came for the video and started whipping him with it I shut up any complaints about the whipping not being severe enough. I really did a number on him with lash marks from his legs all the way up his back. I used the same type of whip on Tranny Slut Punishment 101, but I also shoved trash up his ass and shoved it in with a Dildo Spear. I also made him eat used condoms and tampons. That Sandy is a real pain/humiliation slut. He even brought in a brand of the letter "L" and wanted me to brand him with it. I drew the line at that though.

What has been your favorite BDSM scene that you've done?

I have a few favorites. One of my favorite sessions involved a couple. The girlfriend would send her boyfriend to see me when in her opinion he wasn't submissive enough to her. I liked it because SHE was the "client," not him. Even as a pro domme there has to be a level of satisfaction and enjoyment to keep the submissives coming back for more sessions. You don't want to go way over someone's limits or do something that they don't enjoy on at least some level. For instance, if a person doesn't want whip marks or bruises then I won't whip them or beat them too hard. This session was different though. The girlfriend was calling the shots, not him. She sent him in for toilet training and nipple torture. This brought out the sadistic nature in me and I loved it. I would make him stay an extended time, two hours or more until he finished being my personal toilet even though he had only paid for an hour. I could make him speed up eating by twisting and pulling on his nipple clamps. I have been seeing him for about five years now, off and on. I haven't seen him for a few months now so it's probably about time he comes in again. I look at it as couples therapy because he is so obedient, kind, and respectful to his girlfriend for a few weeks after coming for a disciplinary session with me.

Another one of my favorite sessions involves a slave named Jeffrey who has a deep need to be owned by a black mistress. He also is one of the few slaves who have a fetish of financial domination who put their money where their mouth is. Sessions with him are enjoyable because he wants me to do what I want to with him. He doesn't have any particular requests: he just wants me to make him feel owned and degraded as much as possible. He has a deep, sincere need to obey. I like to get a permanent black marker and write degrading words all over his body, even his face, like: "Black Owned, Slut, Whore, Slave." I have had him serve as my toilet, beaten him, whipped him, spit on his face, had my girlfriends come in and take turns spitting on him and in his mouth. I have even whored him out by having guys come in for blowjobs from him. His level of submission is very deep. If he could quit his job and be my personal slave living in a cage for the remainder of his life he would gladly do it, but reality dictates that this cannot be so. He's been seeing me for years.

What is your favorite professional fetish, and your favorite personal fetish?

One of my favorite professional fetishes is toilet slavery because the slave has to be in such a deep submissive state of mind to do such a thing. I mean...there is no way around it, it is disgusting no matter who it is coming from, so for a slave to serve as my personal toilet feels like true goddess worship. For a slave to complete a toilet training session with me is showing me that he feels so far beneath me that he will worship me by treasuring even my bodily waste. It is very symbolic. Other than that I love slaves who sincerely want to worship me and want me to do whatever I want...who feel fortunate just to be in my presence. For example, a slave who will adoringly rub my feet while I relax and periodically whip him on the back is a very enjoyable session for me.

My favorite personal fetish without question is male chastity combined with cuckolding. This kind of activity can only be done between a couple and isn't suited to a "session." The reason is that it is a kind of lifestyle where the submissive has to have his manhood locked up while the female dominant gets to have intimate relations with whoever she wants. There is no cheating because it is done openly in order to cause the man even more frustration. I love this activity because at a certain point the submissive man's sexual energies shift away from his own cock and focus on pleasing his woman. This creates a very good situation for a dominant woman because her boyfriend or husband becomes even more submissive and takes pleasure from just touching her, massaging her, or just doing kind, thoughtful things to make her happy. If the man is denied sex with his woman for enough time that he believes it won't ever happen one of two things will happen. He will be unable to deal with the sexual frustration and leave, or he will stay and embrace the unfairness as symbolic of a femdom relationship. If he stays then his submission will reach new heights, and he will be a much better, more obedient boyfriend or husband.

What are your favorite items in your "toy box"?

I have a few favorites. One of them is a pair of forceps. They are the surgical kind that is used for piercing, but I like to use them to clamp down on a nipple, penis, tongue, whatever. I have another favorite tool that I call my toilet box. The toilet box is a steel framed device with clear Plexiglas on the bottom and sides with a toilet seat on top. A slave's head can be locked inside and his hands chained to the sides while I sit comfortably on top. This is particularly useful for those slaves who need to be rendered helpless before they serve as my toilet. Another one of my favorites is a metal ring that goes around the penis just behind the head. There are small, adjustable spikes that can be screwed in so they go deeper and deeper into the penis. Of course, the more aroused the slave becomes the deeper the spikes go into his flesh too. What's really fun is combining all three of these devices into a single session.

What advice would you give anyone interested in a domme/sub lifestyle?

I would have different advice for different degrees of interest in the domme/sub lifestyle. For some people they can take it or leave it. It is just something that they can switch on and off to periodically spice things up. For others they get a taste of a domme/sub relationship and it becomes a permanent part of their life, and they couldn't imagine a fulfilled life any other way. For this type of person I would not stop looking until you have found an open-minded partner to share your life. For many submissive men that partner could be their own wife or girlfriend. Don't tell her your most depraved fantasies right at first. Instead, start by being the most perfect, thoughtful, selfless person imaginable. Cook dinner for her, clean the house, give her a massage and don't ask anything in return. If you have been working all day and are exhausted, take the opportunity to rub her feet when you get home, ESPECIALLY if she hasn't done anything all day. Then run her a bath, serve her champagne and give her oral sex and deny yourself an orgasm. Tell her you just want to satisfy her and don't want to think about your own pleasure like most men do. Eventually the woman will begin to see this as normal, even though it is decidedly one sided. The submissive should always encourage her to think about herself and to never feel selfish. Eventually the submissive can make a small request, like to be spanked, but all in fun. Once she agrees you have a lifetime to serve her and to begin sharing your fantasies.

Once the couple is firmly established in a domme/sub relationship rules need to be established with corresponding punishments. For example, if the husband is supposed to get up early and prepare breakfast and the corresponding punishment for not doing so is 20 lashes then don't give him a warning if he accidentally sleeps in. Whip him 20 times no matter what the excuse or reason he has for not doing his chores. Submissives need firm, unyielding discipline. They will adore you and worship you the more strict you are, as long as you're fair within the rules you have established within that relationship.

What advice would you give to someone interested in breaking into the adult industry?

My advice, especially for a dominatrix, would be to not get involved unless you enjoy it. Don't do it just for the money. You won't be very successful anyway because your potential slaves will see that you're a fake. I think that advice would apply to other areas of the adult industry.

It's been two years since our last interview with you; since then what new things have happened? What's changed, and what do you hope to see happen in the future?

I have produced some new videos, Boyfriend's Cock Lockdown and Cum Slurping Cuckie, that deal with male chastity, tease and denial, and of course, female dominance. Also, due to repeated requests from fans for more sissy training and forced bi videos, I have produced two other videos: Forced Faggot and Sissy Cum Junkie. The recession and economic downturn haven't affected the dominatrix business, at least not for me. I have to thank my submissives who see me on a regular basis at my cozy little house/play space in West Los Angeles for that. I should also thank all the people who buy my videos, stream my VOD, and buy my femdom clips.

For the future I'd like to travel more, meet some dommes from other cities and work with them. I'd like to meet more people in the BDSM lifestyle, both dommes and submissives. I'd also like to continue the great working relationship I have with AEBN. They are the most professional, courteous, and competent online business I have dealt with. Every staff member I have dealt with is a quality individual.